5. Even if you have a specific question, a reader may not be able to answer it. If readers were able to tell you EXACTLY what date something was going to happen, or tell you DEFINITIVELY that the man/job/car of your dreams will absolutely appear within the next year (etc., etc., etc.), the readers would be picking winning Lotto numbers for themselves and not working. 😉 This is true for mediums as well (those who speak with the spirits of the dead). Spirits often speak in metaphors and use symbols. Don’t expect a medium to always see your grandma exactly the way you remember her. Grandma might decide to show herself to the medium as a younger person–because she can. When a reader, medium, or healer does mention something that is true tor you, it’s good to give confirmation. That way the reader/medium/healer knows she/he is on the right track.  Don’t sit there silently with your arms crossed, giving no feedback, and then accuse the reader of being way off base.  No one has a good time that way.  Then again, arguing with the reader doesn’t help much either; the cards say what they say (through the filters of the reader, of course)–but saying “That can’t be right” sixteen times will not make the cards or spirits miraculously say (for instance) yes, he will leave his current girlfriend and come back to you.